So what are the top qualities men want in every woman?

Ladies hola!

There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love

— Shmuley Botech

Every woman possess some unique qualities that define her, that’s okay. But what are our men saying about the kind of woman they want in their lives? How best can a woman fit into this situation  and be that irresistible dream woman for her man? How can she portray her purpose to the man, that would make her love herself more and grow beautifully?

What are those qualities that would make a woman a queen of kings?

Going by a cross section of my contacts, Facebook and research, I was able to get into the eyes of every guy. Ladies, we don’t have it all but who said we can’t have it all?

Here are the top qualities every guy wants in a lady. In no particular order.

1. Independence: Men love woman who are able to stand on their own and define themselves without being clingy. He does not want a woman after material things. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dates and love surprises but do not force it.  A man is more likely to hang on to a woman who can take care of herself. While he would love to fend for her needs, shower her with gifts and take care of her too, a man likes a woman who can be on her own, fend for her needs if he is not there. He needs to have you give him the independence to enjoy his time out with his guys knowing you would understand.

2. Intelligence: Beauty without brains is vain! Smart is a total turn on! A 60 percent cross section of people I asked required a woman to be intelligent and smart because it adds a plus to the relationship. A man wants to see the other dimensions his woman has to offer. He needs to know you can flow along his conversations and draw intelligent conclusions to matters. He needs a woman who knows her professional onions at work and is skilled at handling her tasks; a woman who can make him proud in this regard.

3. Confidence: A woman should be comfortable in her own skin, love herself and be bold. Do not be in constant assurance from him that you are beautiful. Feel free to live in your skin and be glad. Honesty also falls in this category. A woman who is confident about her self and life goals is honest  enough to be real. Keep things open and honest.

4. Humour: Guys love girls who can make them laugh. You don’t want to be serious all the time. Men want women they can play like a child with. They want women with wits and the charm to make them laugh silly. Being creative comes under this, you must be creative enough to make him laugh. You must be inspired to create new ideas.

5. Supportive: Be supportive and caring enough to your man. He needs a woman who canScreenshot_20160530-001256 encourage him when he is down. If he gets a new job or deal, having a hard day, men want women who can be caretakers, knowing you have got his back. He wants to know you would stand by him and support his life and decisions. Show support in little gestures and listen to him when he talks. Being supportive also comes with having understanding.

Men want women who understand them, their abilities as well as their choices. They want women who can see and accept them for who they are. Showing affection also falls under here, men are like babies needing love, a man wants a woman who can shower him with love, send him love notes, drop love text messages in his inbox, show little love gestures, a good morning kiss or a teddy bear hug when he is back from work. Men also like sensuous women who know how to do their thing indoors, arousing his sexuality and expressing yours to him.

These top 5 qualities sums up what women need to watch out for and brush up in order Screenshot_20160530-001333to become that person their men desire to see in them. There are other qualities to imbibe and learn from but I would leave that to the pictures to speak for itself.

One beautiful and ever glorious feature I would personally want every woman to possess is the ability to pray; be a God chaser. A praying woman builds a successful home.

And of course, Men love beautiful women, so feel beautiful about yourself and take care of your body, your face, skin, hair, even your nails. Know what turns him on and off, have a particular scent he can easily associate you with, one that can get him crazy about you anytime he takes it in. This is necessary, smell good too!

Here are the responses of guys who voiced out top 5 qualities they require in a lady. They had to ponder and select their best five. Feel free to browse through them and take in some insights.





























So ladies, are you ready?

Watch out for top qualities every lady wants in a guy.






  1. Kinging_David
    May 31, 2016 / 7:52 am

    EnnyCole’s write ups are always perfect and breath taking, nice piece here… BlessUp dear

  2. Dhee Sylvester
    May 31, 2016 / 8:36 am

    Most men would agree with the result of your poll. Personally, I think these qualities are a must have. Well done Enny.

  3. Temitope Temenu
    May 31, 2016 / 5:20 pm

    Wow!! Very true indeed. Very importantly a man needs a prayerful woman. ?

    • ennycole
      May 31, 2016 / 5:26 pm

      Thanks Tope! A praying woman is a beautiful woman

  4. Undyrated
    June 6, 2016 / 5:52 am

    we all think we know what we want till we get them ….still we can only want certain things….

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