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DON’T BEG FOR IT.

The streets are littered, dusk settles in and once again you saved yourself the disgrace of being seen. You had saved your finest piece of clothing for your evening ritual : a rough bleached out white shirt, a cropped up trouser with pocket holes and worn out sandals to match, didn’t you pick them up at the green house where the gate man dried them up as rags?

At exactly 4pm, your begging spree began, you would push through bodies of bent old men, small boys with open wounds, open pans and jingling pocket coins. Eyes sore and mouths festered with cries of “help me” the stories were the same, you are an orphan and have seven brothers to feed and the response you get is the same. A coin or two, on lucky days a note or two. And they only gave in to your pleas because you would follow about and not let them be. Disgust and disinterest clearly written on their foreheads.

It was not easy joining, everyone were on their own and only linked by the weekend money drop off, to maintain the abandoned bridge that housed your lot. When you started, they surrounded you, rage in their eyes, how could you start something and not inform them? The fat boy you  dreaded for his flabby arms was ready to beat you up, ( how could this one be a beggar? you doubt, he is a thief but you are one too, only you steal from your soul) your lanky frame fretted a picture of a skull body in your mind and you complied when they collected your saved begging.

Now that you are a member, it was difficult keeping up to your other status; the person you left behind to swim unnecessary waters. But you are also a member of the joint, a displace of personality.

You are heading to the joint now, you entered the bar spot, the one where the guys you envied always patronized. It wasn’t like these guys had much, last you heard, they weren’t so fly, just some random trying to make a living name persons, but your sense couldn’t tell you how to make yours. Yahoo, office assistants, rich boy-father’s business, struggling entrepreneurs and shit was the list.

Because deep down, you have debased your self and you are a thief denying your soul and stealing from it.

If you find yourself in the wrong crowd, please vanish.

You don’t have to beg people for your manifestation to come or try to fit in a circle.

The right people needed for your manifestation will come. And they would be there for you and you would be there for them. You won’t need to beg these set of people, because they see the potential in you.

You won’t need to beg these people because they found the answers in you,

They see that great something in you that cannot be ignored.

You don’t need to beg these people because they have been rightly positioned for you.

You don’t need to try and fit in with these people because you have already been accepted.

You don’t need to adjust your life for these people to suit their own needs because you are a path they already chose to follow.

Because you have done your homework,

You have been working hard

Targeting your focal point and aiming for the goal spot.
Because you have rightly positioned yourself.

You don’t need to struggle to fit into a cycle, let your circle announce itself.

Your right audience will come and when they do, they would lift you up and in turn, you would do the same . For their manifestation and uplift lies in knowing and helping you. And you also knowing and helping them.

Control your attitude to things of life and you would go a long way.

How much you beg is how less you and your goals are.

Control it, don’t beg for it.

Let them see and feel it.

You don’t need people’s approval to step boundaries or overcome.

Perhaps, it is not the problem itself but the way we see the problem that is the problem.

Have a focal point that leads somewhere.

Don’t beg people. You are not living for them.

 

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People Like To Talk #2. | _People_

On how as humans, talking remains a vital part our lives, it is important to take due caution in delivering when we talk. Read People Like To Talk #1 here= http://ennycole.com/people-like-to-talk-1/

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It is often said that most people listen with the intent to reply rather than understand first. The question therefore is this, have we tried to LISTEN? Try that and see your next line of response and what IF there was something we are missing, what if the person is trying to make you understand his own thoughts?

It is our ability to LISTEN and stretch beyond our own knowledge of reasoning that will open new horizons where everyone can reach a COMPROMISE.

Here is something to reflect:
NEVER talk or say what you don’t know IF you do not have your facts right. Rather than create enmity, better to CLARIFY issues than CONCLUDE. CALL affected parties and reach a compromise.

I have tried and keep trying never to be judgmental about a person or something, what if there was just something else however little? Does anyone think it is easy never to be judgmental? I’ll tell you this, why don’t we start from somewhere till we get to that point of never being judgmental? I am talking about making assumptions, presumptuous thoughts lurking wrongly across the corners of our minds, spilling lies that are not there.

We DO NOT have to TALK ALL THE TIME. This is pretty difficult but one have to keep trying. It is WISDOM to TAlK SILENT. It takes the issue off your mind for a while and gives room for the receiver to REFLECT on his or her actions. It also allows you to see life in a simple way, it’s not everybody that will understand or buy your opinion, for whatever reasons, that is accountable to them ONLY.

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If you have personal opinion or vendetta against someone, NEVER use it as a weapon to the subject of discourse, TREAT each situation as they come without prejudice. If you think there’s something you don’t like that’s happening, make it KNOWN on separate grounds, perhaps, the person had an entirely different opinion in mind. You never can tell.  WHO KNOWS? Do you know what is in someone’s heart? at the heart lies the deepest of thoughts, wrapped in layers to unlock.  

Everyone thinks differently at the same time on any subject. NEVER hold it against them but try to make them understand what you mean and see into their reasons. Some people will PROVE STUBBORN but over the course of time, they will eventually LEARN.

TALKING is a BIG PART of our lives.
We all got to keep talking,
But talking right.
We all got to keep trying..
I am, what about you?

 

 

 

 

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People Like To Talk. #1.

We all like to talk, let’s be real now, being fake, to be on the swaying side, a bit of madness necessary to free your woes, throw away the cares, the formalities, the seriousness is cool. But let us talk about our sane part now.

Yes. People like to talk and will always talk. Talking is a BIG PART of our lives. We talk everywhere and to different people, covertly or openly. For some, talking is to release boredom or have fun. To others, it’s a need for attention, a tool for PERSONAL ENDEAVOURS of various kinds. What we DO NOT KNOW is that humans are liable to err and TALKING is part of our flaws.

The essence of talking should fall within the context of the situation and should produce value. Talking will not make SENSE if it does not add VALUE either to you or to others, talking is useless if it cannot INSTRUCT, TEACH and CORRECT. Talking is INEFFECTIVE if the receiver is NOT LISTENING but wants to be heard. Talking will bring malice if you are toying with the receiver’s emotions. A negative action will birth a negative talk and a negative reaction and a positive will do so as positive as well. Talking WILL NOT produce good results if it is judgemental, biased and self opinionated.

UNDERSTANDING is paramount when talking is evident. People have a way of judging your life the very day it started. We all conclude at some points often defying LOGICAL SENSE and ETHICAL REASONING. What you call being irrational. What we do not have is an understanding of the results of our actions.
It is good to be OPEN MINDED when talking is PARAMOUNT.

Open mindedness will enable you to HARNESS each individual’s thought and come to an UNDERSTANDING. The POINT OF UNDERSTANDING is the REAL END OF TURBULENCE in talking. When one person gains this understanding at hand, he WILL DO the right thing, because IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO AND HE KNOWS IT. When the other person LACKS this understanding, he WILL NOT ACCEPT IT BUT WILL REPEAT such actions AGAIN, making him one less of a person with a MORAL STANDARD that will continue with a problem that will be passed from one place to another because MORALS is needed when TALKING IS EVIDENT.

There is an ESSENCE TO TALKING SILENT, and there should be CONTROLLED THOUGHT(S) to every word(s) that comes out of your mouth. But our thoughts about someone CANNOT be right at all times because people differ in their REASONING so we don’t have to TALK AWAY their lives. But WHAT WE CAN DO, is to TALK INTO their lives.

But people want to talk and be heard at the same time and that would not produce favourable outcomes.
Why? Everybody at a point will claim they are right and yes they are right but only for a while and in their own ‘rightness of mind’

To be continued…