On how as humans, talking remains a vital part our lives, it is important to take due caution in delivering when we talk. Read People Like To Talk #1 here= http://ennycole.com/people-like-to-talk-1/

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It is often said that most people listen with the intent to reply rather than understand first. The question therefore is this, have we tried to LISTEN? Try that and see your next line of response and what IF there was something we are missing, what if the person is trying to make you understand his own thoughts?

It is our ability to LISTEN and stretch beyond our own knowledge of reasoning that will open new horizons where everyone can reach a COMPROMISE.

Here is something to reflect:
NEVER talk or say what you don’t know IF you do not have your facts right. Rather than create enmity, better to CLARIFY issues than CONCLUDE. CALL affected parties and reach a compromise.

I have tried and keep trying never to be judgmental about a person or something, what if there was just something else however little? Does anyone think it is easy never to be judgmental? I’ll tell you this, why don’t we start from somewhere till we get to that point of never being judgmental? I am talking about making assumptions, presumptuous thoughts lurking wrongly across the corners of our minds, spilling lies that are not there.

We DO NOT have to TALK ALL THE TIME. This is pretty difficult but one have to keep trying. It is WISDOM to TAlK SILENT. It takes the issue off your mind for a while and gives room for the receiver to REFLECT on his or her actions. It also allows you to see life in a simple way, it’s not everybody that will understand or buy your opinion, for whatever reasons, that is accountable to them ONLY.

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If you have personal opinion or vendetta against someone, NEVER use it as a weapon to the subject of discourse, TREAT each situation as they come without prejudice. If you think there’s something you don’t like that’s happening, make it KNOWN on separate grounds, perhaps, the person had an entirely different opinion in mind. You never can tell.  WHO KNOWS? Do you know what is in someone’s heart? at the heart lies the deepest of thoughts, wrapped in layers to unlock.  

Everyone thinks differently at the same time on any subject. NEVER hold it against them but try to make them understand what you mean and see into their reasons. Some people will PROVE STUBBORN but over the course of time, they will eventually LEARN.

TALKING is a BIG PART of our lives.
We all got to keep talking,
But talking right.
We all got to keep trying..
I am, what about you?

 

 

 

 

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  1. Dhee Sylvester

    Being judgemental is part of us as humans, because we’re inherently prejudicial. So long we have principles and preferences, prejudice will always lurk in the corner. The only thing we can do is to limit the influence our perceptions have on the nature of those we’re dealing with. We should always be open to being proved wrong by those we unfairly judge.

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